2. Commit to trying to let a man take care of you, even in a small ways.
一定要努力让男人照顾你,即使事情小得微不足道。
When you let men take care of you -- from opening the salsa jar, to opening doors for you, to letting him pay for dinner -- your experiences with men will change.
你让男人照顾你时,从开果酱罐子、为你开门,到让他付晚餐的钱,你和男人在一起的感觉会改变。
Yes, you know you can do these things yourself -- you're a strong, independent woman after all. But asking for support even in small ways helps tame the knee jerk reaction to shut a man out, and instead opens you up to letting him in.
是的,你知道这些事情你完全可以自己做,毕竟你是一个坚强独立的女性。但即使是小事也要让男人帮忙,这样能避免你把男人拒之门外,相反还可以打开心扉让男人进入你的心里。
When you let the right kinds of men support you, it gives that man PURPOSE in your life. A place where he fits, can contribute, and love you up the way you want to be loved.
你找到合适的男人来照顾你时,这便给了那个男人在你生活中的目标。他有适合的位置,能够使他以你想要的方式来爱你。
That's what helps men notice you, has them ask you out, and keeps them coming back for more.
这能使男人注意到你,给了他们约你的理由,还能让他们继续跟你交往。
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