1. 他们让孩子做家务。
"If kids aren't doing the dishes, it means someone else is doing that for them," Julie Lythcott-Haims, former Dean of Freshmen at Stanford University and author of "How to Raise an Adult" said during a TED Talks Live event.
曾担任过斯坦福大学新生教务主任的朱莉·利思科特-海姆斯写了《如何将孩子抚育成人》一书,她在TED的直播中表示:“如果孩子不洗碗,这意味着其他人要帮他们洗。”
Lythcott-Haims believes kids raised on chores go on to become employees who collaborate well with their coworkers, are more empathetic because they know firsthand what struggling looks like, and are able to take on tasks independently.
利思科特-海姆斯认为从小被教育洗碗的孩子成人工作后,会和同事合作融洽,并更懂得以己推人。因为他们亲身体验过不情愿做事是怎样的,而且他们能独立完成任务。
2. They teach their kids social skills.
2. 他们教孩子社交技能。
Researchers from Pennsylvania State University and Duke University tracked more than 700 children from across the US between kindergarten and age 25 and found a significant correlation between their social skills as kindergartners and their success as adults two decades later.
宾州州立大学和杜克大学的研究员们在美国各州抽样选取了700多名儿童,从他们的幼儿园时期一直跟踪调查至25岁。他们发现,这些孩子在幼儿园表现出的社交技能与他们二十年后的成功有着显著的关联。
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