3、“你觉得自己比别人都好！”

Never put words in your partner's mouth. There's no way of knowing what someone is feeling or thinking, so keep the assumptions to yourself.

不要把话强加到你的伴侣身上。你没有办法了解某人的感受或想法，所以自己留着这些假设。

4. "Do I look like I've put on weight?"

4、“我看起来胖了吗？”

Questions about weight or changes in looks are the "oldest grenades in the marriage script".

关于体重或外貌变化的问题是“婚姻生活脚本中最陈旧的手榴弹”。

"What you really mean by asking this is, 'I know I've put on weight. I'm unhappy about how I look and I need you to say that you're OK with my current state.'"

“你问这个问题的真实意图是什么，‘我知道我胖了。我对我的样子感到不快，我需要你告诉我现在的样子就很好。’”

5. "Have you put on a few pounds?"

5、“你胖了吗？”

Blunt, negative remarks to your spouse about his or her appearance are out of line. Unconstructive criticism of physical appearance is painful because you're suggesting that your partner isn't good enough.

对你配偶的外貌给出生硬又负面的评论是不礼貌的。对外貌给出非建设性的批评是令人不快的，因为你在暗示你的伴侣不够好。

6. "You're a horrible parent, breadwinner, lover..."

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