You can also make observations and ask questions about those. For example, "I noticed the tennis-racket charm on your necklace. Do you play?"
你还可以好好观察对方,然后提出相关的问题。例如,“我看到你脖子上的网球拍形状项链了,你打网球吗?”
5. Offer your assistance
5. 主动提供帮助
Shy people don't always feel comfortable marching up to someone and saying, "Hey, I need help with this," so put them at ease by offering your assistance whenever possible.
害羞腼腆的人们不懂得主动亲近他人并说:“嘿,能不能帮帮我做这个?”所以你可以在方便的时候多给他们提供帮助,以此增添对方的安全感。
6. Let the conversation flow
6. 让交谈继续下去
Once you get to this point, you should be able to "jump around and go where the conversation takes you," he says. "You just never know what you might learn."
到了这一步,你还得“多找新话题,聊聊感兴趣的事”,他表示,“你永远都不知道你会从这些对话当中学到的东西是多么的丰富。”
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