整个晚上我都想找机会跟丈夫谈谈,客人走后,我就去找他。
'Why won't you tell our friends how your business is going? You gave them the impression it's awful when it's actually going really well,' I complained.
“你为什么不把真实情况告诉他们?公司明明一切顺利,你却给他们留下相反的印象。
Turns out he was equally annoyed with the way I'd responded.
结果,他对我的做法一样很有意见。
'It sounds like you're bragging. I don't want to go around telling people I'm some kind of big shot and I'm making all this money,' he said.
“你听上去像是在吹嘘,我不想到处跟人显摆,说我怎么怎么厉害,赚了多少钱。他说道。
The topic of money is such a divisive theme in many marriages, I'm relieved that Alejandro and I have so much common ground. But this incident brought to my attention a little-discussed relationship wrinkle: The difference in how we talk about our financial status with the outside world. I realized that my husband and I have never come to an agreement about what we are comfortable revealing, or shielding, about our economic situation. Instead, we regularly annoy each other by following what we are sure is common sense.
在婚姻生活中,金钱是一个很容易引起家庭不和的话题。我很庆幸自己和亚历杭德罗有很多共同语言,但这件事让我关注到一个双方很少谈及但可能影响夫妻关系的问题:我们与外界谈论自己财务状况时所采取的方式不同。我意识到,我丈夫和我从来没有就这件事达成过一致意见,即到底以什么方式公布或隐藏我们的经济状况比较好。相反,我们经常用自己的方式行事,觉得理所当然,结果却惹怒了另一方。
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