告诉孩子,隐私部位之所以称为隐私,是因为不能让其他人看见。向他们解释只有爸妈能看到,外人只能看到他们穿着衣服的样子。告诉孩子医生可以看到他们脱衣服的样子,因为爸妈也在场,医生是在检查身体。
3. Teach your child body boundaries.
3. 教会孩子区分身体边界。
Tell your child matter-of-factly that no one should touch their private parts and that no one should ask them to touch somebody else’s private parts. Parents will often forget the second part of this sentence. Sexual abuse often begins with the perpetrator asking the child to touch them or someone else.
实事求是地告诉孩子,没人可以触摸他们的隐私部位,也没人应该要求他们触摸其他人的隐私部位。家长经常忘记第二点。性侵犯经常以犯罪者要求孩子触摸自己或他人隐私部位的形式发生。
4. Tell your child that body secrets are not okay.
4. 告诉孩子不要隐瞒身体的秘密。
Most perpetrators will tell the child to keep the abuse a secret. This can be done in a friendly way, such as, “I love playing with you, but if you tell anyone else what we played they won’t let me come over again.” Or it can be a threat: “This is our secret. If you tell anyone I will tell them it was your idea and you will get in big trouble!” Tell your kids that no matter what anyone tells them, body secrets are not okay and they should always tell you if someone tries to make them keep a body secret.
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