盖拉克说,为了做到“尽善尽美”,人们错误地认为自己需要送出多样化的礼物,即便代价是放弃最佳礼物。你在选购礼物时可能也会跳过自己拥有的东西,因为你不想有损自己的个性。
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So those trainers of yours that your friend loves? Don’t avoid gifting a matching pair just because you want to be unique.
因此如果你朋友喜欢你的那双运动鞋,就不要为了自己想要的独一无二而故意不买同款鞋当礼物。
Buy based on shared interests
基于共同的爱好选购礼物
To shop better, Elizabeth Dunn, a psychology professor at the University of British Columbia in Canada and co-author of Happy Money, suggests starting with something you have in common with the recipient. She says, you should focus on what you share and pick a gift from there.
加拿大英属哥伦比亚大学心理学教授、《快乐金钱》合著者伊丽莎白·邓恩说,为了选购到更好的礼物,你可以先从你和收礼者的共同点着手。她说,你应该基于你们的共同点来挑礼物。
For an even stronger gift think about a common interest you share and buy something that your recipient can experience – say, concert tickets or a cooking class. Research has also shown that experiential gifts can bring you and the recipient closer, even if you don’t experience the gift with your recipient.
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