Are you a good conversationalist? What makes someone a good conversationalist? Being a good conversationalist is important in every context, be it in business, social, or dating.
你是不是一名好的健谈者?什么能让你变得健谈呢?无论在何种情况下,作为一名好的健谈者都是非常重要的,无论是商业、还是社交或是约会。
I don’t think there are any “tricks” or shady techniques you have to apply to be a great conversationalist. Below are ten timeless rules I apply to all my conversations:
我认为要想成为好的健谈者,不需要任何的“招数”或不正当的手法。下面是我用到谈话中永不过时的10条原则:
1. Be genuinely interested in the person.
对谈话的人真正感兴趣
Who is this person? What’s on his/her mind? What does he/she enjoy doing? What motivates him/her in life? These are the questions I have for every single person I meet. Since people form the core of my life purpose (to help others grow), my genuine interest in people, from who they are to what they do, comes naturally.
这个人是谁?他/她在想什么?他/她喜欢做什么?什么激励着他/她的生活?我每遇见一个人,我都会想这样的问题。由于人们形成了我生活目标的核心(帮助他人成长), 我对他人的兴趣,从他们是谁到他们做什么,就很自然地产生了。
Such genuine interest, not an artificial one, is essential to making a conversation fly. If you are not interested in the other person, then why speak to him/her to begin with? Move on to someone you really want to talk to. Life is too short to be spent doing things you don’t like.
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