国外知乎：朋友圈总有人拉仇恨怎么办？_时事

国外知乎：朋友圈总有人拉仇恨怎么办？

记住——过得好的人不用去向任何人或者任何社交网络炫耀。事实上他们只是喜欢自我欣赏而非去在意要不要展示给别人看。

获得6.5k好评的回答：@Niharika Banerjee

I have been at your place.

我曾经也这么想。

I failed to get into a medical college and I missed the opportunity to study in Delhi University. I was shattered back then, seeing all my ex classmates on Facebook having a good time, celebrating college life, enjoying college fests and trips and posting pictures with their new friends. Everyone had moved on with their life but I was stuck in a stupid college and an extremely boring life.

我没能进入一所医学院，也错过了在印度德里大学学习的机会。看到我以前的同学在脸书上发的幸福生活，美丽的大学，参加各种大学聚会，旅行以及跟他们的新朋友的合照，我那时候都崩溃了。所有人都在前进着，我却呆在一个垃圾学校过着一种极其无聊的生活。

I was jealous, I was depressed, I felt unworthy - it was all pathetic.

我很嫉妒，我很沮丧，我觉得没有价值——所有的事情都太可悲了。

But then I decided to be happy in all circumstances. I brought down my friend list on Facebook from 636 to 80 friends. These were the people who were just my classmates, not my friends and I am not ashamed to admit that I was extremely depressed seeing them succeed. I brought down my friend list to people who actually care about me. And now, I don't use Facebook.