"Basically," she said, "you're telling the other person your reading of the situation — and simultaneously admitting that you know it can't be 100% accurate."
“基本上,”她说,“你在告诉其他人你对形势的看法,同时承认你知道这不是百分之百准确的。”
3. Meet more people
3. 见更多的人
Marie Stein recommends diluting someone's strong negative opinion of you by getting lots of other perspectives.
Marie Stein建议通过更多其他方面的视角来稀释别人对你强烈的负面观点。
"The more people you meet, the more you will realize that every one has a different opinion," she writes. "The only opinion about you that matters, that sticks with you for your whole life, and that you can control, is your own."
“你遇见的人越多,你越会意识到每个人都有不同的观点,”她写到。“唯一对你重要、贯穿你生活始终、并且你也可以控制的观点,就是你自己的观点。”
4. Try to make others comfortable
4. 试着让别人感到舒适
"How do you know that others with whom you share company are not themselves insecure?" writes Aurora Clawson.
Aurora Clawson写到,“你怎么知道你分享陪伴的人会不会有不安全感呢?”
"Others may act secure, but so many time[s] that is an act. How about making a point of helping others feel comfortable? Be a nurturer and you won't have to worry about how others think of you."
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