同时,心理治疗师Amy Morin写到,精神强大的人很少把注意力放在他们不能控制的事情上。一旦你把注意力从那些事情上移开,你可能会变得更加快乐,压力也更小。
6. Don't try to please everyone
6. 别试图取悦每个人
Multiple Quora users told the same story, about two people and a donkey, which points to the foolishness of trying to please everyone.
许多Quora用户告诉我一个同样的故事,关于两个人和一头驴子,反映了试图取悦每个人的愚蠢。
At first, two people are riding a donkey, and passersby call them cruel. Then, one person rides the donkey while the other walks, and passersby call the rider selfish. They switch positions and now the new rider is called selfish.
起初,两个人骑着一头驴子,路人说他们残忍。然后,一个人骑着驴子另一个人走路,路人说骑驴的人自私。他们交换了位置,现在那个新的骑驴人被人说自私。
Finally, both people walk alongside the donkey and passersby laugh at them for not knowing how to ride a donkey.
最后,两个人都步行在驴子旁边,路人嘲笑他们不知道如何骑驴。
The moral of the story, says Syeda Ratal Zehra, is that "people will always judge you no matter what."
Syeda Ratal Zehra说,故事的寓意是“不管什么情况,人们总会评判你。”
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