如果你和你的丈夫不再首先像朋友一样相处,那么当生活不按照计划进行的时候,你们互相之间或许不会那么富有同情心了。而且这将会是真正的羞辱,因为这基本上意味着忘掉所有的“生病和健康”的事情。
2) Be your own person
2)做你自己
You can’t magically get rid of your life just because you’re married now. You need to still be your own person. If you don’t, you’re going to resent your husband for making your entire life about him… and that’s not fair since it will be your decision and your doing.
你不可能像魔法一样来摆脱自己的生活,仅仅是因为你现在结婚了。你还是需要做自己。如果你不再做自己,你将会怨恨你的丈夫,恨他将你的整个生活都变成了他的……而且这并不公平,因为这是你自己的决定和做法。
Think about what matters to you the most in your life. That Saturday morning barre cardio class? Spending a quiet Sunday afternoon baking chocolate chip cookies? Girls night out and trips with your friends and seeing your parents and sister on a regular basis?
想想你生活中最重要的事情。周六的扶手杠有氧运动课程?在周日下午安静地烤巧克力薄饼甜点?定期与闺蜜晚上一起闲逛,和你的朋友旅游,看望你的父母和姐妹?
Don’t get rid of your interests and hobbies or stop seeing the people that mean the most to you. It’s unhealthy to be laser focused on your relationship, and your husband probably doesn’t want to give up everything and everyone that he loves, either.
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