3. Read up on some things you can expect in relationships.
3. 阅读一些书籍:恋爱时你会期待什么。
Learn the concepts and skills that will help you navigate through a relationship - and life in general. For example: How do you have difficult conversations in a relationship? How do you determine healthy and unhealthy behaviors? Without knowledge of these skills and concepts it can feel like navigating in the dark, not knowing what you are bumping into.
学习一些恋爱概念和技巧--以及生活的概念和技巧。比如:恋爱时如何进行重大问题对话?如何确定好的行为和不良行为?如果不知道这些技巧和概念,那你的这段恋情就会在黑暗中航行,不知道会碰撞出什么。
4. Give him time to show his true qualities.
4. 给他点儿时间,展现他真正的品质。
Watch out for consistent behaviors for at least 6 months. It is very difficult to hide your true qualities for more than 6 months without being a sociopath - and for sure, no longer than one year. And you would have to be a really skilled sociopath on top of that for those unhealthy qualities to remain "hidden".
至少要花6个月的时间,才能看出一个人的品行是否一致。如果不是反社会人士,那么6个月的时间就足以看清他/她的真正品质了--当然,不会超过一年。而且,你必须是一位非常有经验的反社会人士才能隐藏这些不良品质。
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