别给自己后悔的机会：10年后你会后悔的10件事_BEC初级作文

别给自己后悔的机会：10年后你会后悔的10件事

别让那些态度消极的人左右你，别让他们接近你。如果你不给他们机会，他们就无法对你带来影响。你要记住，和这些负面情绪的人为伴并不是一种义务，只是在于你的选择。这样你就会和亲近那些有同情心的人，远离那些愤怒的人；亲近那些宽容的人，远离那些贪婪的人；亲近那些有耐心的人，远离那些焦躁的人。

4. Being selfish and egotistical.

自私任性。

A life filled with loving deeds and good character is the best tombstone. Those who you inspired and shared your love with will remember how you made them feel long after your time has expired. So carve your name on hearts, not stone. What you have done for yourself alone dies with you; what you have done for others and the world remains.

充满善行和美好品质的一生是一个人最好的墓碑。那些你所激励过而且与他们分享了你的爱的人，即使你已经离开这个世界很久，也会记得你所给予他们的。把你的名字刻在他们心中，而不是石头上。你为自己做的事情会随着你的离世一起消亡；而你为他人和这个世界做的事情会长存。

5. Avoiding change and growth.

拒绝改变和成长。

If you want to know your past look into your present conditions. If you want to know your future look into your present actions. You must let go of the old to make way for the new; the old way is gone, never to come back. If you acknowledge this right now and take steps to address it, you will position yourself for lasting success.