“思考
──至少从学术上而言──但是没有学会如何
“感受
。我们从未学会表达自我。我们只记住了一点──我们的表现比我们是谁更重要。我们从未学习如何与自我保持联系,更不用说与他人保持联系了。
And so, as children, many of us grow emotionally numb, strangers to our own selves. It's no surprise, then, that as adults, we have a harder time with empathy than people who grow up in cultures emphasizing lifelong emotional development.
于是,从孩提时代开始,我们很多人就成长为情感麻木、对自我视而不见的人。毫不奇怪,当我们长大以后,我们会比那些在重视终生情感培养的文化环境中长大的孩子们,更难懂得和学会同理心。
When in the drive to excel we all become disconnected from others, the inevitable result is a society where everyone views everyone else as a competitor and an obstacle to our own success.And the inevitable result of that is a society where today we feel like we can't trust anyone, a world where we're all tired, we're all trapped and scared of what might come next. A world where five innocent children can die in a dumpster just trying to stay warm.Sina WeiboA screenshot shows an image, posted on Sina Weibo, of the trash bin where five children were found dead.
在追求竞争和超越的过程中,我们都变得与他人疏远了,不可避免的后果就是社会上每个人都把其他所有人当作竞争对手和自己获得成功的障碍。这又不可避免地导致了现在的社会状况,我们觉得无法相信任何人,我们每个人都觉得疲惫不堪、陷入困境并且害怕未来可能发生的事情。正是在这样的世界中,五个天真无辜的孩子仅仅为了取暖而在垃圾箱中丧命。
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