很多人从来没有升到过高于工蜂的位置,因为他们的技能只是工蜂的技能。他们知道如何非常努力地自己埋头苦干,这正是他们一直接受的教育。
Our society pits us one against the other
这个社会让我们互相疏远
We grow up in a society in which we're overly defined by our achievements. Our entire academic system focuses exclusively on the individual. From the moment we start school, we are trained to see all the people around us as names and numbers ranked from high to low. As students, our 'job' is to beat everyone else.
我们在一种过度地以成就来界定彼此的文化中长大,我们的教育体制只关注个人。从我们上学的那一刻起,我们受到的教导就是把身边的人看作名字和从高到低排列的数字。作为学生,我们的“任务就是打败其他所有人。
Our parents, sincere in their rush to help us excel, exhort us to work first and play later. As a result, we learn to
think
, academically at least, but not to
feel
. We never learn to express ourselves. We take away the message that how well we perform is more important than who we are. We never learn to really connect with ourselves, much less to others.
我们的父母,真心实意地急于帮助我们做得比别人更优秀,总是劝导我们要以学习为重。其结果便是,我们学会了如何
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