There are so many things I wish I had known while growing up. No one ever tells you the hard truths of life. Maybe it’s because they can’t stomach it, or maybe it’s because they think it’s just something you have to experience firsthand to understand. Here are twenty things nobody told you while growing up that would’ve been nice to know beforehand:
真希望我在成长时能知道这些事情,可惜没人告诉过我生活的无情现实。或许是因为他们也无法忍受,抑或在他们看来,一切都得靠自己经历领悟。下面这20个道理没人在你成长时告诉过你,现在我希望你能提前明白:
1. You’re Going to Spend A Lot of Time Figuring Stuff Out
你要花很多时间才能搞明白某些事情
Unless you’re one of the lucky few who already knows what their passion is and what you really enjoy, you will be spending a lot of time trying new things and figuring out what you’re good at and what you like. Don’t be afraid to try new things and fail at them; failing builds character. You have a lot of growing up to do in your 20s, a lot of self-examination and exploration. Use this time wisely to get to know yourself as best as you can–not that you won’t change as you continue to get older, but it’s definitely a time of discovery, getting to know oneself and what you want in this world and what you have to contribute to the world.
除非你是极少数的幸运儿,一早清楚自己的所向所往,否则你会花很长时间一直尝试,直到最终明白自己擅长什么又喜欢什么。别害怕尝试和失败;失败塑造性格。20几岁时,你有许多成长机会,会经历无数次反省和探索。所以,请理智把握这段时光,尽力了解自己——因为年纪再大些后,你基本就定型了。这个阶段,你需要去发现并了解自我,弄清楚自己想要什么、能为这个世界贡献什么。
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