有时要明白自己需要什么并不容易。请坐下来仔细想想你最需要什么:家庭、自由表达自己、关爱、经济安全,抑或其他?可行的话,你可以列一张次序清单。另外,也考虑一下自己希望留下什么遗产。
4. Determine what really bothers you
搞清什么最让你心烦
You can soar only by pushing back against something you don’t want. Figure out what upsets you, and be specific about it. Don’t just say that you hate your office job. Pinpoint exactly why you hate it. Could it be your micromanaging boss? Your workload? Your meaningless job title? Or all of the above? What bothers you, and how can you fix it? How much do you want to fix it?
只有抛开讨厌的东西,你才能振翅飞翔。想想什么使你心烦,一定要具体。不要简单说你讨厌上班,而应具体弄清究竟讨厌上班哪一点:是因为吹毛求疵的老板吗?工作量太大?职称不起眼?或全都有?什么使你心烦并该如何应对?你又愿意付出多少去解决?
5. Determine what makes you truly happy
发现什么让你真正快乐
There’s no waste to life if you’re happy living it. Your happiness is the root of your desires. So take a few moments and really think about what makes you happy. Is it traveling? Being around children? Owning a successful business? Your significant other? Financial freedom? Once you pinpoint the one thing that makes you happy the most, you’ll have a pretty clear idea of what you should strive for in your life.
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