Nearly every parent loses control and screams at the children now and then. But what if you do it repeatedly?
几乎每一位父母都有情绪失控和对孩子高声叫嚷的时候。但如果你频频如此呢?
Researchers suspect parents are yelling more. Parents have been conditioned to avoid spanking, so they vent their anger and frustration by shouting instead. Three out of four parents yell, scream or shout at their children or teens about once a month, on average, for misbehaving or making them angry, research shows. Increasingly, therapists and parenting experts are homing in on how it hurts a child, as well as how to stop it.
研究人员猜测,父母如今吼孩子比以前更频繁了。父母已经习惯于不动手打孩子屁股,因此他们会通过大喊大叫来发泄愤怒和不满。研究显示,四分之三的父母会因家中幼童或青少年 犯错误或惹他们生气而吼叫、尖叫或大喊,平均每月一次。治疗师和家庭教育专家正越来越多地关注这类行为会对孩子产生何种伤害以及如何阻止这类行为。
Raising your voice isn't always bad. Loudly describing a problem can call attention to it without hurting anyone, says Adele Faber, a parenting trainer in Roslyn Heights, N.Y., and co-author of 'How to Be the Parent You Always Wanted to Be.' For example: 'I just mopped the kitchen floor and now it is covered with muddy footprints.'
提高嗓门并不总是坏事。纽约州罗斯林海茨(Roslyn Heights)的育儿培训师、《怎样成为理想中的父母》(How to Be the Parent You Always Wanted to Be)一书作者之一阿黛尔・费伯(Adele Faber)称,大声描述一个问题能在不伤害任何人的情况下引起关注。例如:“我刚刚拖过厨房地板,现在又被踩得到处是泥。”
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