大叔控请注意如何展现独具魅力的个人风度_BEC初级作文

大叔控请注意如何展现独具魅力的个人风度

There is one thing you absolutely must nail, she says--the ability to talk about yourself 'artfully and gracefully,' in real life and online. 'No one is going to do it for you,' says Ms. Klaus, who wrote a 2003 book, 'Brag! The Art of Tooting your Own Horn Without Blowing It.' She recommends devising a 'brag-a-log,' a short, entertaining story about your personal accomplishments. It isn't a laundry list. It's a story that delivers the same points. Humor and an enthusiastic delivery are musts. 'No one would say that you've bragged about yourself because it was entertaining,' Ms. Klaus says.

她表示，有一件事情你必须搞的定，那就是，不管是在现实生活中还是在网络上，都要拥有艺术地、优雅地介绍自己的能力。克劳斯称，没有人会帮你做这件事情。她曾在2003年写了一本书，名为《吹嘘：如何不露痕迹地自吹自擂》(Brag! The Art of Tooting your Own Horn Without Blowing It)。她建议策划一篇“吹嘘日志”，也就是一个介绍自己个人成就的简短而有趣的故事。这不能像一篇流水账那么无聊，而应是一个能够传递出同样信息的故事。幽默以及热情洋溢的表达是必须的。克劳斯说，因为故事很有趣，所以没有人会说你是在自吹自擂。