“我必须承认,我像自己小时候受惩戒那样惩戒自己的儿子时,造成了伤害,这不是我的本意,我也没有料到会发生这种情况。我知道许多人不认同我惩戒自己孩子的方式。在拜访了一名心理学家之后,我也理解了还有其他可能更妥当的方式来惩罚孩子。”
It is good that Peterson met with a psychologist and learned alternative disciplinary methods, but that doesn’t heal the child’s wounds, and the fact that Peterson may have been abused in this way does not make it acceptable to pass on the abuse to his own children.
彼得森去见了心理学家,还学到了惩戒孩子的新方法,这都很好。但这并不能弥合孩子的创伤,而且即使彼得森被这样虐待过,把这种虐待再传递给自己的孩子也是不可接受的。
He continued, setting up an even more dangerous proposition:
接着,他又提出了更加危险的看法:
“I have learned a lot and have had to re-evaluate how I discipline my son going forward. But deep in my heart I have always believed I could have been one of those kids that was lost in the streets without the discipline instilled in me by my parents and other relatives. I have always believed that the way my parents disciplined me has a great deal to do with the success I have enjoyed as a man. I love my son and I will continue to become a better parent and learn from any mistakes I ever make.”
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