值得一看 Foxnews女主播的职场建议_BEC初级作文

值得一看 Foxnews女主播的职场建议

25岁那年，我刚从法学院毕业，是办公室里唯一的女律师。上司总是让我做复印文件之类的琐事，从来不让男律师做。忍无可忍，我决定下次一定要当面拒绝他。绞尽脑汁想好了说辞，以免到时候会紧张。终于等到了那天。我果断地回绝了他，“如果你是想叫讨论案件顺便复印一下，我乐意之至，但是如果只是复印文件，您还是另请高明吧。”他脸涨得通红，对着我大喊大叫，想想都恐怖。其实那时候我心脏都快跳出来了，很怕当场被解雇。但是我也想好了一套说辞为自己开脱，我说，“鲍勃我很尊敬你，但我只能接受我们对案件的争吵，如果是别的琐事那就不必多谈了。”他非常生气，激动地打给公司主管。他们听后对他说，“我并没有觉得她说的不对，而我也不想再听到有人说你又让公司同事复印文件了。”从此，我就站住了脚。如果你不尝试一次，你永远都不会知道你有能力做到。至于我那时的上司鲍勃，已经开始跟我联名发表文章，解决案件，因为我赢得了他的尊重。

3. Don't make yourself a victim.

3. 不要自怨自艾。

We all know people who make everything into a confrontation and walk around as victims. Other than cruelty, I can't think of anything much more unattractive than making yourself into a victim. And women do it too often. They chalk up their lack of a promotion or the advancement of someone else to their own bad luck. They lash out at someone for being unfair to them as opposed to asking, "How can I change the situation? What did I do that led me into this situation? How can I stop doing that and get better results?"