If you watched one of your parents lose themselves or felt like one parent sacrificed a lot for the other, you too, at a young age, maybe said, "I'm not going to depend on a man."
如果你看到父母中有一个失去了自我,或者感觉他们中有一个人为另外那个人牺牲了很多,那年纪轻轻的你可能也会说:“我以后才不会靠男人。”
Or maybe you simply don't like your parents relationship because it felt like one or both were trapped in some way.
或者可能你仅仅是不喜欢你父母那样的关系,因为那样感觉好像一个人或者两个人都被困住了。
You may even admire your parent's relationship, but still noticed one parent was more dominant over the other. Did you always hear "You'll have to make sure that's okay with mom first" or "We can't buy that because dad will get mad" in your home?
你可能甚至会欣赏你父母那样的关系,但仍然注意到其中一个人占统治地位。你是否在家里总是听见诸如“你先要确定妈妈会同意”或者“我们不能买那个因为爸爸会疯掉的”此类的话?
Do a little digging and identify the wall for yourself, no matter what your scenario. This wall can be what's keeping you single (just as much as this wall had me on the brink of divorce).
无论你属于哪种情况,你都要挖掘并认清你心中的障碍,那就是你依旧单身的根源(正如这道障碍差点使我离婚一样)。
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