We all care about what others think of us and want to be liked.
我们都在乎别人怎么看待我们,都渴望被别人喜欢。
The basics of getting people to like you are obvious — be nice, be considerate, be a decent human being. However, there are also many smaller, more discreet things you can do that can have a huge effect on how others perceive you.
让别人喜欢上你的基本方法很明显——要和蔼、考虑周到、正派。然而你还能做一些更细小、更简单的事,这会对其他人对你的印象造成巨大影响。
1. Use a Person's Name.
叫对方的名字。
Let's face it — we're all huge narcissists and we all love the sound of our own name. Learn names and make use of them. Always use an individual's name in a conversation. This tried-and-true technique is sure to increase your fan base.
我们要面对现实——我们都很自恋,喜欢听别人叫自己的名字,问问别人的名字并且用名字称呼他们,和别人聊天时要经常提到对方的名字。这个行之有效的技巧一定会为你赢得众多粉丝。
2. Smile — With Feeling!
微笑——要发自内心!
When someone offers a huge grin brimming with authenticity, happiness rubs off on its receivers. There have been many studies showing how mood, whether positive or negative, spreads between individuals. If your positive attitude brightens someone else's day, that person will love you for it.
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