可以赞美的方面有很多,你完全可以做到不在赞美时打击对方。
Don’t make a joke of it
别开玩笑
Flirting can be scary at the best of times. You’re making yourself vulnerable when you do it, and it’s perfectly natural to want to offset that with humour. You want to tease a woman instead of complimenting her – but being earnest is probably the best approach when it comes to compliments. Women recognise sincerity and are grateful for it.
就算天时地利人和,撩妹也没那么容易。处于被动状态的你为了不那么尴尬,想说几句幽默的话来缓解一下气氛。于是你就想弃用赞美转而对她进行调侃——殊不知真诚才是最好的赞美方式。当你拿出诚意时,对方是能够感受到的,而且会很感激你。
Instead of ‘I’d tell you how cute you look today, but of course you already know that hahahahaha’, try a simple ‘You look really lovely today, by the way.’
错误的赞美方式是“我想说你今天很可爱,不过,你应该早就知道了,哈哈哈”,正确的打开方式是这样的:“对了,你今天看上去很可爱。”
That way, she won’t have to smile awkwardly or wonder whether it’s a joke or not.
这样,对方就不需要尴尬地对你微笑,也不用在心里嘀咕你说的到底是不是真心话。
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