Do compliment her on things other than her appearance
赞美她们外表之外的东西
When complimenting women, it’s good to keep in mind that women are likely to be wary of comments on their physical appearance, and are much more receptive to compliments on their intelligence, wit, or sense of humour (In fact, they are almost never appreciated for the latter, so go ahead, tell her that she’s one of the funniest people you know).
赞美女性时,要记住女性对于别人赞美自己外表总是防心很重,相比之下,女性更喜欢别人赞美她们的才智或幽默感(事实上,人们总是容易忽视女性的幽默感,所以不妨告诉对方,她是你见过的最风趣的人)。
If you do make a comment on her physical appearance, the golden rule is to keep it general. ‘You look beautiful,’ to your date, NOT ‘you have a very sexy neck.’ No matter how sexy her neck is, pointing out one hyperspecific area of her body can feel gross and objectifying.
如果你非要称赞人家的外表,黄金法则就是,不要说得太具体,用“你真漂亮”代替“你的脖子很性感”,就算人家的脖子再性感,都不要具体指出来,否则会让人感觉恶心并有物化对方之嫌。
Don’t be abrasive or grudging
别一副不情不愿的样子
Sadly many men adopt a slightly hostile or abrasive tone when they compliment women. It’s another defence mechanism that you have to let go of.
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