Despite the potential problems, lots of people defend cake smashing as a way to add humor to a celebratory occasion. "Some guests think it is disrespectful and demeaning, while others see the fun and excitement of it all," says DiCianni. "They can't wait for that last second to see what the couple will do. The suspense gets the guests every time. We love it either way because the smiles and laughter it brings is still what we want at the end of the day."
虽然存在这些问题,但很多人还是觉得砸蛋糕可以让婚庆现场更有趣。迪西安尼说:“有些客人觉得这种做法不敬又侮辱人,而其他一些人则觉得又好玩又刺激。他们等不及要看到新人会怎么做。每一次这种悬念都会吸引宾客。不管砸不砸蛋糕,我们都高兴,因为砸蛋糕带来的笑容和欢乐是我们在婚礼的最后想看到的。”
To ensure those smiles, both members of the bridal couple need to be on board with the ritual before it begins. "Overall, weddings should be a display of love and affection, not a battle for dominance over 'who takes the cake.'" says Geigle.
当然了,为了保证大家都感到开心,新郎新娘需要在仪式开始前达成共识才行。盖格勒说:“毕竟婚礼是为了在众人面前表达对彼此的爱意,而不是为了让两个人争个高低。”
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