明尼苏达州中等水平教育者协会顾问金•坎贝尔说,让孩子自己选择什么时候写作业,或者如何与老师打交道。如果孩子保证自己联系老师,他们需要知道,如果他们不照做会有何种后果。
6. Introduce physical breaks
休息时活动筋骨
“When I see that kids are falling asleep, we’ll do 20 jumping jacks, or play rock-paper-scissors, or pretend we’re in the ocean and there are sharks and we need to swim really fast,” Campbell says. To enhance concentration, she recommends that kids take a walk, play sports or go on a bike ride before they start homework.
坎贝尔说:“当我看到孩子们昏昏欲睡时,我们会做20个开合跳,或者玩会儿石头剪刀布,或者假装我们在大海里,有鲨鱼,我们需要飞快地游泳。”为了提高专注力,她建议让孩子在做作业前散会儿步,做做体育活动,或骑会儿自行车。
7. Establish reward systems
建立奖励制度
Rewards work best when they are immediate. “You earn them when you do your homework for a week, not a quarter,” Campbell says. “Some parents will say you have to get all A’s for the semester, but long-term goals don’t work.” The payoff can be something small, such as stickers to decorate their notebook.
如果奖励是立竿见影的,就能发挥最大的作用。坎贝尔说:“比如,只要连续一周做完作业就可以获得奖励。一些家长会说你这学期所有科目都要得A,但长期目标不起作用。”这种奖励可以是某种小东西,例如用来装饰笔记本用的贴纸。
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