THEY MAKE A LOT OF "BUT" STATEMENTS.

他们总是说"但是"。

When your partner makes a lot of "but" statements - like if they say "you look beautiful, but..." or, if you've slaved over a special dinner for them all day, and they respond with something like "it's good, but it's a little dry" - that's a red flag, especially if it's happening more than once a day. "If your partner starts a phrase like this several times a day, then they're being overly critical," says Jennifer Seiter, founder of Ex Boyfriend Recovery, a website that aims to help couples going through breakups. "Statements like these don't seem like much at first, but years of this kind constant criticism will negatively affect anyone's self-worth, and that's pretty abusive."

当你的另一半总是说"但是"时--比如他们会说"你看起来真好看，但是……"或是你忙碌了一整天为他准备了特殊晚餐，他们却说"蛮好吃的，但是有点干了"--这是个危险信号，尤其是当这种情况不止发生一两次时更是如此。"如果你的另一半每天都要说好几遍类似的话，那可能就是他们过于挑剔了，"前男友修复网站的创始人珍妮弗·塞特说道，该网站旨在帮助情侣度过分手难关。"起初，这些话看起来没什么影响，但多年来不断听到这种批评会消极地影响每个人的自我价值，这是相当粗鲁的。"

THEY START ACTING WAY MORE CHARMING THAN USUAL.

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