当然是的,你说,然后你又分享了一些你知道的有关驻扎帐篷、庇护所、时不时遇到的阵雨以及那些你将经过的很酷的路线名字的信息。
It's fun. It feels awesome to bask in the glow of people who admire you for wanting to take on such a huge challenge.
那很有趣。沐浴在人们因为你将接受如此巨大的考验而投来的崇拜眼神中的感觉相当好。
It feels like you're already on the Trail.
那种感觉就像是你已经在路上了一样。
It also means you're less likely to actually be on the Trail someday, because "when other people take notice of an individual's identity-related behavioral intention, this gives the individual a premature sense of possessing the aspired-to identity."
那也意味着你不太可能在某天真的踏上这段旅程了,因为“当人们注意到个人与认同相关的行为意图,这将给这个个体一种已经拥有这种期望意图的假象”。
In short, you already got a kick out of people thinking of you as a Trail hiker... so now you're less motivated to actually be a Trail hiker.
简单来说,你已经从被看作一个长途旅行者中获得了极大的快感……因此你真的去做一个长途旅行者的动力就削弱了。
Sounds counterintuitive, right? Aren't we supposed to share our intentions so other people can help support and motivate us?
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