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什么事你最不能接受？

获得113好评的回答：@Dan Holliday

For me, the hardest things to learn in life have been:

我最不想学习和接受的事情有：

Learning to admit I'm wrong. And not just admit it to myself, but openly find the people that showed me I was wrong and then thanking them. The task of admitting we're wrong is already hard enough, but when compounded by my own obligation to find the person and say, "Hey, you were right. I was wrong." Make it painful sometimes. I would like to believe that I'm getting better, but it's a work in progress.

学着承认错误。不仅仅只是跟我自己承认错误，还有被别人指出了我的错误，我还要谢谢人家。承认错误的任务已经够艰难了，但是有时候我还必须去跟一个人说,“嘿，你是对的，我是错的。有时候这很痛苦。我宁愿去相信我正在变好，但是要慢慢来。

In the same vein: changing my mind. We are creatures designed to be stubborn. Beingfeisty, stubborn and willful kept our ancestors alive. Being right was secondary. We circle ourselves with people who agree with us, we surround ourselves with media and reading that confirms our biases. It's really challenging to change our mind. I'm learning to do it. I am getting there because I spend immense effort in arguing against everything I believe and testing my assumptions as frequently as possible.