1) Be friends first
1)首先要做朋友
Yes, of course, you’re no longer boyfriend and girlfriend – now you’re husband and wife. That’s a big deal and it’s a pretty massive change. There’s no way that you wouldn’t notice this.
是的,当然,你们已经不再是男女朋友关系——你们现在是夫妻关系。这是很重大的一件事,而且是一个非常巨大的改变。你肯定会注意到这一点。
But if you don’t act like the two of you are friends, you’re going to let all the ups and downs of life get in the way. Things won’t always be super great and you won’t be happy all the time. You’re going to have long, exhausting weeks at work. You’re going to have an epic cold that won’t go away for six weeks. You’re going to struggle to balance everything in your life, from your marriage to your best friends to your career and hobbies.
但是如果你在做事的时候不再像朋友一样,那么你的人生会出现起起落落。事情不会总是那么顺利,而且你也不会一直都很开心。你将会有冗长累人的工作周。而且你会经历史无前例的感冒,6周都好不了。你会挣扎着平衡生活中的方方面面,从婚姻到最好的朋友,再到你的事业和爱好。
If you and your now husband stop being friends first, you might not be super compassionate toward each other when life doesn’t go as planned. And that would be a real shame since it would basically mean forgetting that whole “in sickness and in health” thing.
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