没什么区别,是吗?错了。我们喜欢身边人是快乐、热情、积极的。
Keep in mind choosing the right words also affects how you feel. Don't say, "I have to go to the gym." Say, "I want to go to the gym."
记住,选择恰当的言辞也会影响你的感受。不要说:“我不得不去健身房。”而是说:“我想去健身房。”
4. Show a little vulnerability.
稍微示弱。
Great teams are often led by people willing to admit weaknesses and failings. Great friends are also willing to be vulnerable.
优秀团队的领导者通常愿意承认缺点和失败。好的朋友也愿意展示脆弱的一面。
Want to make a great first impression? Don't try to impress. Instead, be humble. Share your screwups. Admit your mistakes. Be the cautionary tale. Laugh at yourself.
想给人留下良好的第一印象吗?不要试图惊艳对方。相反,要谦虚。分享你的糗事。承认你的错误。做反面教材,学会自嘲。
When you do, other people won't laugh at you. They'll laugh with you.
当你这样做的时候,别人不会嘲笑你。他们会和你一起笑。
And they'll immediately like you, and want to be around you more.
他们会立刻喜欢上你,并且更想和你呆在一起。
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