事实上,我们几乎忍不住要分享自己的想法和感受:研究还显示,无论是在生活中还是在社交网络上表达自己,都会让大脑产生一种愉悦感,这种感觉和大脑受到金钱或食物刺激时产生的愉悦感相同。
By helping people talk about themselves, you're seen as a great conversationalist even when you actually say very little. And in the process, you also make other people feel better about themselves, which makes them like you.
让人们表达自我,这样即使你说的很少,也会被视为一个优秀的健谈者。而在这个过程中,你还让对方自我感觉良好,让自己更讨喜。
That's another win-win.
这是另一个双赢的做法。
3. Change one word.
换一种说法。
Think about the difference in these statements:
想一想下面这些说法的区别:
"I had to go to a meeting."
“我得去开会。”
"I got to meet with some great people."
“我要和一些优秀的人见面。”
"I have to interview some candidates for a job."
“我得面试一些求职者。”
"I get to select a great person to join our team."
“我要选择一个优秀的人加入我们的团队。”
No big deal, right? Wrong. We like to be around happy, enthusiastic, and motivated people.
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