她的言语和行为令我感到沮丧,因为受她的影响,其他人也开始发表看法,说我很矮/很小。就在我以为自己并不在乎他人看法的时候,她开始了。她非常外向,爱憎分明,就好像她非常了解我才会这么说。但于我而言,这种行为很讨厌。
My friend no longer attends my church, so I don't feel I can ask her to intervene with her mom for me.
我的朋友不再陪我去教堂,所以我想,不能再请她干预我和她妈妈的相处模式了。
I don't want to offend her or hurt her feelings by explaining that I don't like it when she lifts me up or makes these comments. I also don't want to make a scene at church. I don't know if I should attend another church, hide in the bathroom, fake an injury and refuse to stand up when I see her, or what. I feel that the longer this goes on, the more awkward it will be to confront her. I'm also afraid she will try to convince me that she's just being friendly, so I shouldn't mind these things.
我不想向她解释,其实我并不喜欢她将我抱起或发表这些看法,我怕会冒犯她或伤害她的感情。我也不想在教堂大吵大闹。我想,要不要去另一家教堂呢,或看到她的时候去卫生间躲着、假装受伤,或拒绝站起来。我感觉这事儿拖得越久,面对她就会越尴尬。同时我也担心,她会尝试说服我,她那么做是出于好心,我不应该介意。
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