实用社交课堂：9个招人嫌的交际习惯你有吗？_BEC初级作文

实用社交课堂：9个招人嫌的交际习惯你有吗？

当有人夸你后，你会说“啊，今天我气色并不好。” 明明是盛装打扮，你却又说“唉，随便乱穿罢了。” 就连知根知底的人夸你，你都会说“哪有你说的那样好！”——拜托，这又不是谄媚奉承，何必呢！

6. De-emphasizing compliments with self-effacing remarks.

面对赞赏过于谦逊。

It’s okay to say “thank you” when you’re complimented. By making a self-effacing comment, you nearly force the other person to repeat their compliment, which is not a gracious thing to do. Acknowledging a compliment isn’t snobby – like you’re admitting that you think you’re just grand – it’s a simple courtesy. Besides, you earned it. Saying “thank you” not only makes the other person feel good, it’s a healthy reminder that you’re responsible for some really good things in your life.

受人称赞时说句“谢谢”就行了，非得过于谦逊，反有再次邀赏之嫌，很不好。接受称赞并不表示你很自命不凡，好像自己很了不起的样子，只是是客气而已。更何况有时候确实当之无愧呢！表示感谢不仅让对方感到舒服，也表明你很珍视生活中的美好事物。

7. Cutting people off mid-sentence.

打断别人的讲话。

The only time this is okay is when you’re in an intense brainstorming session. Or you’ve got an urgent situation to attend to. Or you haven’t seen your best friend in months. Okay, so this habit is kind of elastic, but you get the gist. Most of the time, interrupting just means that you’re missing the best parts of the conversation. Plus, you’re showing your chat partner that you value your own thoughts over theirs.