好的领导都是好的老师。好的老师会讲好故事。“我们从叙事中学习,想要当个好领导,你就把故事讲好、教好。这两者无法分割。”
#5 Stop talking, already.
#5 别说了,立刻马上
You’ll never learn anything if you’re too busy talking. “Listening makes you more humble, more intuitive and smarter,” Rosenberg says. “Talking does none of these things. It just enamors you with your own eloquence. Too many people spend their time talking about how they think something works, when they could just listen to someone who knows. “But if you must talk, ask questions. People learn more from your questions than from your answers. It makes them think and explore the choices with you.”
如果你永远都在忙着说话,那你就永远学不到东西。“倾听让你变得更谦卑,更有直觉,更聪明。”Rosenberg 说:“说话做不到以上任何一点,它只能让你沉迷在自己的腔调里无法自拔。太多人花了太多时间讲他们如何看待事物,而这时他们本可以去听听真正行家的观点。如果你必须开口说话,那么就问问题。人们能从你的问题里(而不是你的答案)学到更多,它可以引起他人思考,并和你共同探讨答案。“
#6 But, if you know the answer…
#6 但,如果你知道答案.......
There’s a time for listening and there’s a time for straight talk. If you do know an answer beyond a shadow of a doubt, say something! Anything else wastes everyone’s time. “State the answer and don’t ask more questions,” Rosenberg says. But with one caveat: “Back up your position with data. You don’t win arguments by saying ‘I think.’ You win by saying ‘Let me show you.’”
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