和室友谈谈。双方坐下来,针对现状中激怒你的关键所在交流一下。可能他打呼噜,可能她在你做作业的时候看电视。不管是什么,不要大吵,不要指责。镇定点,友好简洁地阐述你的现状。从大处着眼。如果你一开始吃毛求疵,小里小气,局面将会失控,什么也解决不了,两人都感到愤怒。此外,如果你打算和你室友谈谈他的问题,你要能够应对他提出的有关于你的问题。要具有弹性,愿意妥协。
Talk to your RA – Do not do this before you talk to your roommate. Going above your roommate’s head is inconsiderate. You are big boys and girls now. You can work your problems out by yourselves. However, if you’ve talked to your roommate and something is still really causing a big disagreement between you and you roommate, you might need to get an outside party involved. If the situation really is irreconcilable, there is usually a process that will transfer you to a different room with a different roommate.
告诉导员。在和室友沟通之前,不要走这一步。越过室友是不体谅的行为。你现在长大了。你可以独力解决你的问题。如果你和室友沟通之后,两人之间的分歧依然确实很大,这时你需要引入外部第三方了。如果局面不可调和,通常过程如下:你换到另外一间寝室拥有新的室友。
Get out of your room – This is probably the simplest of all solutions. When your roommate is in your room and doing something irritating, just leave the room. Go to the library or a campus computer lab if you need to study. Go to a friend’s room if you just need somewhere else to escape. Getting out of your room is good for you anyways, and some time away from your roommate will help keep tensions from getting too high.
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