对于你的中国朋友,你最不该做的事就是在公共场合羞辱他们或者让他们感到尴尬,这样会让你的中国朋友丢面子。不要在其他人面前指出你朋友的错误,或者对你的朋友大吼大叫。
好消息是你可以通过自己的实际行动帮助朋友挽回面子。你的赞美之言,你的诚信意识都可以给你的朋友脸上增光。例如,“用热烈的掌声感谢老师今天给我们上了一节精彩的课”。中国人喜欢掌声。
5. Never let someone else pay the bill without fighting for it
不要静待他人买单
In the past, I was stunned the first time I witnessed the many fairly chaotic, noisy scenes at the end of a Chinese restaurant meal. The time to pay the bill has come and everyone is simply doing what they're expected to do — fight to be the one to pay it. The Chinese consider it good manners to vociferously and strenuously attempt to wrest the bill out of the very hands of whoever happens to have it. This may go on, back and forth, for a good few minutes, until someone "wins" and pays the bill. The gesture of being eager and willing to pay is always appreciated.
以前,当我第一次看到中国饭馆喧闹嘈杂的场面时,我惊呆了。买单时,每个人互相推攘,争相买单。中国人认为争着买单是一种优秀的行为。这个过程会持续几分钟,直到有人胜出付账。争着买单会得到他人的欣赏。
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