7. “Ugh, I hate when you do that.” (Said in front of friends or family.)
(当着朋友或家人的面说)“呃,我讨厌你那么做。”
Putting your spouse down in front of others is a huge no-no in a relationship, said Whetstone.
惠茨通说,当着他人的面贬低配偶是婚姻与恋爱关系中万万不可做的事。
“In this example, you are gathering people against your spouse — and what is worse than that? It is hard to recover from such a boundary violation,” she said. “It causes resentment and a lack of trust.”
她说:“在这种情况中,你在召集大家反对你的配偶——比这更糟的是,你很难求得对方原谅这样越界的事,对方会为此怨恨,不再信任你。”
8. “I barely know him — he's just someone I work with.”
“我不怎么了解他——他就是和我一起工作的人而已。”
It's almost inevitable that you or your partner will develop a small, innocent crush on someone at some point during your marriage. If that happens, be upfront about it. Don't try to sweep it under the rug with a statement that minimizes your feelings, said Wahlgast.
沃尔葛斯特说,在你们的婚姻关系中,不可避免地,伴侣或你在某个时刻会对其他人产生一种轻微的、单纯的好感。如果这样的事真的发生,就要直面问题。不要轻描淡写地一说,掩饰你的感情。
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