“The best way to neutralize the potential destructiveness of your crush is to briefly and simply acknowledge it to your spouse,” she said. “Try saying to your husband, 'I know it sounds ridiculous, but I have a bit of a crush on that new consultant. He's so funny — his sense of humor reminds me of yours.'”
“你对别人的好感对你们的关系有潜在的毁灭性危险,化解这一危险的最好方式就是向你的配偶简明扼要地承认事实。”她说,“试着对你丈夫说'我知道这听起来很荒唐,但我对那个新来的顾问有点儿好感。他很风趣,他的幽默感让我想到了你。'”
Though it may be an uncomfortable subject to broach, ultimately, Wahlgast said being transparent about your feelings “will create more openness with your partner. You'll each feel more comfortable bringing up other taboo subjects in a kind and respectful way.”
尽管这个问题可能不好开口,但沃尔葛斯特说,坦白你的情感最终“会让你和你的伴侣更加坦诚相待。你们也会以友好、互相尊重的方式提出其他禁忌话题,双方都会感到更舒服。”
9. “You shouldn't feel that way.”
“你不该那么想。”
There's nothing more belittling or condescending than telling your spouse what he should or shouldn't be feeling in any given situation, Rodman said.
罗德曼说,没有什么比告诉你的配偶他或她在某种情况下应该或不应该怎么想更居高临下、更贬低人了。
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