5. “Have you put on a few pounds?”
“你是不是胖了?”
Blunt, negative remarks to your spouse about his or her appearance are also out of line.
直白、消极地评论配偶的外貌也越过了红线。
“Unconstructive criticism of physical appearance is as bad as it gets,” Whetstone said. “It's painful because you're suggesting that your partner isn't good enough or that they're less than or defective.”
“毫无助益地批评外貌,要多糟有多糟,”惠茨通说。“这样很伤人,因为你在暗示你的伴侣不够好、差那么一点、有缺陷。”
6. “You're a horrible parent, breadwinner, lover...”
“你是个糟糕的家长/当家的/爱人……”
Put-downs centered around your spouse's family or occupational roles are particularly cruel, said M. Gary Neuman, a psychotherapist based in Miami Beach, Florida.
贬低你配偶的家庭或职业角色非常残忍,弗罗里达迈阿密滩市心理治疗师M·加里·诺依曼说。
“Negative statements about our self-identities are devastating,” he said. “These roles are so important and tender. When they're questioned, we feel completely torn down. It becomes hard to forget statements like this.”
他说:“消极评价个人身份的结果是毁灭性的。我们的角色重要又脆弱,它们一旦被质疑,我们就感觉完全崩溃了。我们也很难忘掉这样的话。”
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