也许你会觉得出轨无处不在,但专家们却很难确切说出有多少人出轨,因为没有人会真诚坦白自己出轨这件事。"一般人会有这样的看法:如果一个人对其另一半说谎,那他有什么理由对研究员也说谎呢?"约会情感专家Anita Chlipala说道。我们会谈过的一位专家估计:人的一生中,25%的男性和14%的女性会出轨;另一位专家说,他们认为人的一生中,夫妻出轨率在20%至60%之间。所以不忠的人可能很少,也有可能很多--现在很难说清。更不用说,这些研究大部分都是有关异性恋夫妇的,所以一大部分人口甚至都没被考虑在这些估计之内。
Cheating also encompasses a spectrum of behaviors, and every couple has different definitions for what cheating really entails. (And for the record, open relationships, or sex outside of an otherwise monogamous relationship with the consent of both partners, is not cheating - by definition, cheating involves lying.) Chlipala suspects that the number of people who cheat might actually be growing because of these flimsy definitions. "One of the prime reasons why people cheat is because of opportunity and circumstance," she says. "Now, people have access to dating apps, or they can reconnect with an old flame on Facebook - and some people are surprised that emotional cheating is actually a thing." Many cheating scenarios start innocently and spiral, she adds. One survey found that 76 per cent of women thought it was cheating to send flirty texts, compared to 59 per cent of men.
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