之后,他就会意识到自己爱上她了。
先动情的男生,会愿意陪在她身边,会做任何事情去讨女孩的欢心。
在他看来,“情人眼里出西施”这句话真的一点不假。
To him, she is perfect and beautiful.
对于他而言,她就是完美而且美丽的。
A man in love with a woman doesn't see her objectively. There is a filter there, or some kind of participatory illusion. He does not see who you see in the mirror. He is seeing someone beautiful and perfect and sublime, and it's one of the most powerful things in his life.
男生看待自己喜欢的女孩并不客观,会自动带着滤镜,或者说带着自我幻想。他看到的和正常人看到的她并不一样。他看到的是美丽、完美、绝妙的她。这是他人生最有力量的一件事情。
拿个相处了数十年的老夫老妻来说,眼神就是最好的证明。
Go watch a happy old couple that's been married for decades. Watch the man's eyes. Sure, he may appreciate some young woman's ass in yoga pants or whatever...but watch his eyes when he's looking at his spouse.
去看那些已经结婚好几十年的生活愉快的老夫老妻。深入的观察这个男人的眼睛,当然,他可能会欣赏那些穿着瑜伽裤年轻女人的臀部或者其他,但当他看见自己的老伴时,看他的眼睛。
If you're paying close enough attention, you can almost see the filter click on when his gaze settles on her. In that moment, he's not seeing the same frumpy empty-nester that you or I see - he's seeing something wonderful.
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