Failing to have date nights
没有约会之夜
“I think it is crucial, especially in long-term relationships to prioritize intimacy in various ways, such as planning special dates to do fun things together, have romantic dates,” says Eva Weaver, sex coach, and somatic sex educator. “The attitude to think that sex needs to happen spontaneously can get in the way.”
“我认为优先考虑亲密关系很重要,对于长期恋情而言更为如此,比如规划特殊的约会,做一些有趣的事,规划浪漫的约会等,”性教练、身体性教育者伊娃·韦弗(Eva Weaver)说道。“认为性行为应自然而然地发生而不应加以计划或妨碍你们的感情。”
Posting about your partner online
在网上发关于另一半的帖子
Venting on social media can be dangerous for your relationship. “Your partner needs to feel safe with you in order to open up and connect,” explains Cate Mackenzie, psychosexual therapist and couples counsellor. “If you talk about your partner online without consent, then you could take away this secure way of attaching to each other and they may not wish to open up with you.”
在社交媒体上发泄可能不利于恋情发展。“和你在一起时,另一半如果有安全感,他/她才会吐露心声,和你交流,”心理治疗师兼夫妻顾问凯特·麦肯奇(Cate Mackenzie)解释道。“如果你未经另一半的同意,在网上发关于他/她的状态,可能会导致双方感情受到影响,他/她或许不愿意和你坦诚。”
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