But you'll want to go a step further and tell them how excited you are to be meeting them.

不过你还想更进一步，告诉对方你们之间的见面让自己多么的兴奋。

Try something like "I'm so glad we had a chance to meet today," "I'm so happy we're finally meeting!" or "It certainly is a pleasure to meet you today."

试试这样说：“我很高兴有机会与你见面。”“真好！我们终于见面了！”或者是“今天能见到你真是一件快乐的事情。”

3. Use their name — often

3. 使用对方的名字，并且常常使用

"People love to hear their name," Stoker says.“

“人们都喜欢听到自己的名字。”Stoker说道。

So address them by it whenever possible.

所以就尽可能呼叫对方的名字吧。

It tells them that you really listened to their introduction and that you're engaged in the conversation.

这样能告诉对方，你确实聆听了他们的自我介绍，并且你有投入到对话当中。

4. Explore their interests

4. 发掘对方的兴趣

Stoker suggests asking thoughtful — but non-threatening — questions that will help them to reveal themselves to you. For instance, you can ask about their interests, hobbies, or passion projects.

Stoker建议，在与害羞的人们相处的时候，提出体贴关切的、但又不具威胁的问题，可以放下对方的防备心，更敢于向你展现自己。比如，你可以提问关于兴趣爱好或者激情项目的问题。

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