'Even if a couple is experiencing distress and difficulty in other areas, gratitude in the relationship can help promote positive marital outcomes.'
“即便一对夫妻正在经历着拮据和其他方面的困难,感激之情也有助于促进夫妻关系朝积极的方向发展。
The study also found that higher levels of saying 'thank you' protected men and women from the damage caused when arguing.
研究还发现,经常表达谢意能避免夫妻因争吵而损害彼此间的感情。
'Importantly, we found that when couples are engaging in a negative conflict pattern like demand/withdrawal, expressions of gratitude and appreciation can counteract or buffer the negative effects of this type of interaction on marital stability,' said Ted Futris, an associate professor at Georgia University.
乔治亚州大学副教授泰德•福翠丝(Ted Futris)表示:“重要的是我们发现当夫妻两个处于像强势和被动型搭配的消极冲突模式中时,感恩和欣赏的情感表达能够消减或缓冲这种互动模式给婚姻稳定带来的负面影响。
'This is the first study to document the protective effect that feeling appreciated by your spouse can have for marriages,' Barton said.
巴顿说:“这还是首个证明得到配偶的欣赏,对婚姻关系有保护作用的研究。
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