我曾参加北京电视台的一档节目,当时一名富有魅力的40多岁中国男人批评我的家庭观不切实际,不是中国式的观点。他解释说,因为40多岁的中国男人只喜欢把他们视为偶像的20多岁的女孩。
I disagree with his assessment. To the contrary, my conversations with Chinese men make me optimistic about the future for men and women in China.
我对他的评判并不认同。相反,我与一些中国男性的谈话让我对中国男性与女性的未来充满乐观。
While I've met only a small fraction of all the men in China, the men I've met are extraordinarily thoughtful and interesting, and searching for the same things women are. As in: a good life and a wonderful partner with whom to share that life. And children, who are happy and well-prepared for life.
虽然我只遇见过很少的中国男性,但至少我遇见的这些男性都极有想法,人也有趣,与女性追寻的是同样的东西,比如,美好的生活以及一个与其共享这段生活的伴侣。至于孩子,则希望他们快乐,为未来生活做好准备。
Are there some Chinese men only interested in being the objects of women's worship? Sure. But if we as women demand mutual respect and partnership, those men eventually will have to come around or be left alone.
有没有中国男人只对成为女性的崇拜目标感兴趣?当然会有。但是,如果女性要求互相尊重与合作的话,那么这些男性最终也不得不做出改变,否则他就会成为孤家寡人。
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