即使你不讨厌那些邀请你参加活动的人,但如果接受太多邀请,突然之间,你就会变得无比忙碌,日程满满,应接不暇。因此,说“我很忙恰恰是避免自己变得太忙的极其有效且不会引起反感的好办法。至少在“忙碌陷阱被广为讨论之前,“忙是一块挡箭牌,一个美丽(从某种角度来说确实如此)的善意谎言,能为你在这个纷纷扰扰的世界开辟出一片安静的私人空间。
In that sense, I agree with Mr. Kreider. Taking time to relax and unwind is extremely important for nurturing one's creativity. 'History is full of stories of inspirations that come in idle moments and dreams,' he says.
从这点来看,我认同克雷德的说法。悠闲和放松是培养创造力的极其重要的养分。克雷德这样说道,“历史上有各种充满了灵感的故事,它们往往在闲散时刻和睡梦之中迸发出来的。
The problem is, 'I'm spending time at home idly seeking inspiration,' is not, for whatever reason, an acceptable answer to the question 'Why can't you hang out tonight?'
但问题在于,要想礼貌地应付“你今晚为什么不出来一起玩的问题,“我想在家舒舒服服地找灵感无论如何都不可能是一个好答案。
Mr. Kreider relays the story of a friend who, when asked if he wanted to get together this week, responded that he didn't have a lot of time to escape work, but suggested that Mr. Kreider ping him if something was going on. His busy-ness 'was like some vast churning noise through which he was shouting out at me, and I gave up trying to shout back over it,' he wrote. I couldn't help but wonder: Maybe having him give up was the friend's objective. Or perhaps the friend just wanted to hang out at home with his significant other and watch back episodes of 'The Real Housewives of New York City' on DVR but was too embarrassed to admit it.
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