保持自然的目光接触,记住要做你自己,不要让别人伤了你的自信。
A great tip if you are really anxious is to imagine a clear barrier or wall between you, which is your confidence protector - using this technique will keep your self-confidence intact. An awkward conversation shouldn't change your whole day, so hang on to your confidence using the wall.
如果你很焦虑,还有个好办法,设想你们之间有一道清晰的屏障或者一堵墙,保护着你的自信。这样做能使你的自信不受伤害。一场尴尬的对话不应该毁掉你的一整天,所以就用这堵墙维护好你的自信吧。
DON'T TALK ABOUT
不要谈论:
No talking about the weather! Please. I know this can be an ice breaker but come on - it's dull.
不要谈论天气!千万别。我知道这能活跃气氛,但拜托,这太无趣了。
Refrain from excusing yourself or putting yourself down - this is no way to have a decent conversation with anyone and all it does is put you in a position of weakness.
不要为自己辩解,也不要贬低自己,这样做没法和别人体面交谈,而只能让自己处于弱势。
Steer clear of gossip and slating others. Tongues get loose when alcohol is involved and it's always a regret the next day!
不要八卦,也不要中伤他人。喝了酒很多人都变大嘴巴,第二天想起来就后悔!
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